Quote Originally Posted by docrobbysherry View Post

Finally, try doing more fem things. Especially those u don't find appealing. If u try them and they don't feel good, then you'll know. My guess is, some will feel good and that may surprise u!
I'm all for being open to new experiences and not ruling things out but I don't see the point in doing things that don't appeal to me just for the sake of them being fem. I don't have to like every "fem" thing just because I like some of them. Just like if I were cis gendered I wouldn't have to like every "masc" thing.

I feel like if something is truly for me it will happen organically. For example, I never wanted my ears pierced until recently and I just got them done and I'm glad I did and can't wait for them to heal so I can swap the studs out for nice earrings. But I wasn't surprised that I liked having my ears pierced due to doing it without wanting to. I just decided one day, hey I think I want this done and did it. But I don't think I would've been happy if I'd done it say two years ago.