Quote Originally Posted by AllyCDTV View Post
I find it amazing how many threads there are here about defining whether someone is straight or gay. The truth is, it only matters to the people directly involved. The more I learn about sexual preferences, the more I believe that it is impossible to use any amount of categories let alone 2 to describe everyone.

I find that the objects of my sexual attraction can vary based on a large amount of variables. I believe it is pointless to spend time analyzing it. I just go with the flow as long as I am not hurting anybody in the process.
That reminds me of a guy in a thread on some other forum who was lamenting over the fact that he had sex with a guy and didn't know if that made him gay. So I asked him "If you went on vacation to Mexico, would that make you Mexican?" I thought it was a good answer, and maybe someone else might find it useful.

As far as going with the flow, or wherever your passions take you, I suppose the main risks come in to play when there's a spouse or children involved, at which point this is no longer possible if you're a responsible adult.