That is so freaking cool, Anne. She probably has sensed that presence at some level, and is now working it out along with you.
I am sure there will be more than a few bumps, but it is SO COOL that you have opened up to her like this, and she's opened up to you.
Please let us know how it goes. I am also sure that this transcends what clothes you might wear, too. Even if she doesn't want to be out with you all "femed up" she is clearly comfortable with you in the older sister role. That is a very special connection that only the two of you can share.
Hugs and hugs
Meghan
