my SO did agree that my manner of dress was tacky when I wore the ultra short form fitting dress, with thigh high stiletto boots. lol. I wasn't insulted by this. :p
Now I on the other hand, would have called that hot.:D
"We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think." - The Buddha
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.