Much good would come if you began developing a phenomenology of what it means to be gender fluid. I am not, being firmly rooted in the binary, but I completely get being gender fluid. I actually disagree with Reine, I think that being gender fluid is not a choice of how you describe yourself. I think gender fluidity is not only a nurture issue but also a nature issue. It would help if you could start describing it from your perspective, from the vantage point of someone experiencing it.