to me the thing that makes transsexuals different can be thought of from the reverse perspective... if you are not ts, you can have some semblance of a rewarding male life..if you have any kind of meaningful fullfilling male role in the world, one that you enjoy and cherish simply for what it is, then you are not transsexual.... gender is not fluid for transsexuals, it is uncompromising and immutable
the idea that a person would come here to question whether they are ts, be "told" that they are not likely ts and then get upset about it is a very silly thing..and for all the years i've been here i see it over and over again...
the word "just" is not a perjorative unless you wish it to be... I would have traded my kingdom to be "just" a crossdresser...
Being transsexual is not something to aspire too
