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    Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
    I missed the "turn on" part.

    Lynn, this determines what motivates you to dress and if your only reason to be Lynn is for sexual gratification, it would be a huge mistake to transition. What did you mean by "turn on"?
    Well, obviously im not "turned on" all the time but I am dressed en femm all the time. I don't feel turned on this very moment but I am dolled up right now for instance. I got my wording "turn-on" from a testamonial from someone else on another website that had SRS and was disappointed so I stole that persons wording because it seemed to fit me to a degree but not exactly.

    Quote Originally Posted by LeaP View Post
    The wording of your original post is actually quite clear. "I dress up because it's a turn-on for me" is very specific. So is the gender language - "guys like me", "male libido", "man in a woman's body", etc.

    You are not a good candidate for SRS because (as an evident fetishist) the chances for post-surgical regret would be assessed as high. You are not a good candidate because, changes to medical ethics notwithstanding, the guideline is still "first, do no harm" - and SRS is viewed as a mutiliation for any but a transsexual (for whom it is a correction). You are not a good candidate because you don't understand the consequences and therefore can't give informed consent.

    SRS takes medical procedures considerably past cosmetic surgery. Because of that, the physician's personal and professional ethics have as big a role as do the prospective patient's wishes. That is why they don't let "guys like you" do whatever they want. Medicine (at its best, at least) is based on evidence and outcome-based practices and standards. At this point, a man acquiring a female habitus doesn't quality.

    In other words, you are not a good candidate.
    I got the wording elsewhere so I could state a question properly (which I didn't) Im tired of defending myself. Forgive me for asking anything. You just don't know me. You don't know if Im an "evident fetishist" I wish you would try and get to know me. I may be worth knowing. You never know! Night all!
    Last edited by Eryn; 01-08-2013 at 02:00 AM. Reason: Merged two consecutive posts. Please use the multiquote button at the bottom right of each post to put all your replys in one post.

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