I do not believe that someone has to tell your children every detail of their private life. For instance you wouldn't necessarily be telling your child that you plan on having sex tonight, there is no need to know.
It is good to discuss the topic and present a variety of viewpoints, but what works for you may not be appropriate for anyone else. I was a bit disturbed to learn that you let your daughter read this forum. I believe this is against forum rules as this is strictly an adult forum.
Obviously this is a private hobby for you and equating it to announcing you are planning on having sex is probably a poor comparison. This part of the forum is open to anyone that can click a mouse,whether they are 9 or 99 years old.Not sure if you knew that.
It SURE is my hair ! I have the receipt and the box it came in !
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.