I really think it's all been said here but don't think dressing in front of your children at anytime is a good idea. I love to dress and know from experience how hard it is to stop so if you're dressing in front of them till they are 9 to 15 months old there is a good chance you're not going to stop. If you're out that may not make a difference but when they are old enough and their friends find out, and they will, it could be very embarassing to them which is not fair to them. We are still not accepted readily in society so my opinion is to keep your dressing private from the kids. That said once they are old enough and out of the house you may confide in them if you wish and most likely they will keep it to themselves regardless of what they think of there dad's love of being a girl. Just my opinion.