my note was sincere and my point is the same regardless of whether this is about transsexualism or not....being miserable about gender is something that impacts both transsexuals and crossdressers...both make promises to wives that they cannot and do not keep..
both ts and cd's get so caught up in how they are feeling, and so caught up in doing anything to save their marraige that it renders them blind to the impact they are having and how they are their own worst enemies.
its the constant negative circling thinking that needs to stop...
what is extreme about pushing attention in a positive direction?
Me saying "what are you doing to make yourself productive and constructive in others lives" was a question...it was not rhetorical...
