Quote Originally Posted by Jenniferathome View Post
The public at large, be they in a mall, restaurant or bathroom, don't look up. And if they do, they may think your a TS or in transition or a "Pat" and while there are questions, THEY don't care enough to react. Now, the upshot is, because you have confidence, and act like you belong, you are comfortable and that comfort give comfort to others around you. THAT'S the message.
This is so true! I know I don't always pass. When I first started going out, I used to ask people, cashiers, store customers, anybody, "did you know I was a guy before I started talking to you?" Most answered yes but many of them said I looked really good! I know I look good, better than I do as a man so I have that confidence. Now its like I don't really care what people may or may not think. Its just awesome to go out as a woman! If I go out with that happy, carefree atittude, I think people sense that and know they can't possibly shoot me down!