Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
I could see this during the 1970s or before when homosexuality was still considered a mental disorder, but surely this no longer exists? Gays are out and proud now, they're getting married, we have top elected officials saying that they are gay, their sons are gay ... I think there is enough awareness of gays and gay rights in our society to overcome any social conditioning, especially when a person is an independent adult.

There is enough information today that if a man feels attracted to men, even if he is living in an ultra conservative environment, he will still KNOW that he is attracted even if he doesn't act out on it. And when he is off on his own, he may not want to publicly acknowledge a relationship with a man, but it still would be a relationship like any other replete with emotional and physical connections.
There is still the very real threat of losing your family, friends, and being discriminated against.
It may not be the 70s, but the fact that same-sex marriage is even being debated is proof enough that things still have a long way to go.

I can just go by my experience where opening up a bit allowed such feelings to emerge.

Of course the other possibility being that she's just more of a bottom, which is certainly possible and would fit the whole men being used as a tool thing.
I'm no GG so I can't say for sure if there are any women out there interested in being a top most/all of the time.