Paula, the obvious and safest advice I can give is to take it slow. Your wife has to get used to this. Hopefully she can accept all of this. You might consider over-compensating by bending over backwards to do many things to show your appreciation? I've let my wife take over our finances and "wear the pants" around here! Usually the guy is dominant in a relationship. But there are gals who would love to be in charge! Think about how that might help your relationship. I do almost all the housework around here. Wouldn't your wife love to be releived of those responsibilities? I love taking care of our house knowing I can be dressed knowing I'm the perfect housewife, and I love it because it feels right for me! Your mileage may vary.
Cheryl Ann
