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[PaulaQ]

Might turn out to be a good thing IF her friend doesn't think it an insurmountable problem.

I trust her friend. She's a civil and gay rights activist. Her own family won't speak to her - hasn't spoken to her in years because she's married to a woman. I think she'll help.

I really don't care what happens to me here. I'm more worried about my wife. I wish I hadn't done this to her.