Hey Paula you did the right thing, the more time that would have went on the longer the secret. I am no expert but seems like your both thinking what's going to happen tomorrow but your not giving tomorrow a chance to come. One day at a time would be a better idea and then see which road it leads you and if things don't look good you can always change roads, so far nothing you said or did is carved in stone there's lot of room for change or compromise believe it or not this could be a win win situation. My wife is a big supporter of my dressing but as much at times she has to bend I can't be selfish either I have to think about her to and I do feel you are also thinking about her. It sounds like you both love each other and now you are going to have to get her back to the talking table and try to think about today and hopefully it will lead you to a happy tomorrow together. I hope you keep us updated.
