@Jenn, Maria & Tina - thanks for your support!
@flatlander - yes, my voice was very calm. My wife was too. I'm almost always calm - at least on the surface. I'm so calm that it's often difficult to tell when I'm really upset. But in this case, I was calm, and happy to answer her questions. It's a little bit of a difficult dance though. I want to be honest, but I don't want to overwhelm her. So I admitted to having a wig, but I didn't tell her that I had a nice set of breast forms. I did tell her where I got the wig - so it wouldn't be difficult to guess that I might well have purchased forms from the same store, but she didn't ask that, so I didn't tell her. I didn't want to freak her out. I am trying to think of this as "controlled doses of the truth."
I also haven't told her that I have a small collection of cosmetics. (Drug store stuff mostly - I really need to go to the mall for a makeover, and to buy some better quality stuff.) Still, while I'm learning the basics, I figure the cheaper stuff is better - I suck at applying it still, so wasting it is a little less painful.
I am feeling more positive about the future. I think we have a chance. There's still a long way to go, and so many unknowns though. My wife is a hell of a woman though, and she's trying hard, and this is something she's so ill prepared for.
