Let's not hammer Lacy for being closeted. At least she knows who she is and even though her words ring hollow to the ears of a TS, you have to admit that she may just be calling it like she sees it.

I don't measure people by what they say. The most accurate measure I know is by actions, and Lynn's actions are textbook pink fog CD.

I wasn't experiencing a fraction of the angst that Lynn describes, back when I made the tough terrifying decision to transition, and I can't for the life of me understand why someone would continue to live in such a horrific circumstance. If things are that bad, then it's time to start talking. Time to start talking for real about things that are real.

Not deals, or compromises but real conversation about how you're going to handle the impending transition.