I'm not really looking to "blend in", as it were, since most women these days don't much seem to be interested in wearing pretty dresses and getting all dressed up to the nines. But that's what I like to do. Now, the OP statement wonders if I try to look like an actual woman, and I'd have to submit that there aren't many men around who wear what I wear and look like I look. So I'll answer it this way: Yes, I try to look like an actual woman, albeit a woman who is nicely dressed and took the time to do her hair and makeup.