Wow. That is about as perfect a statement as I could imagine. She could have even said Transgender instead of a cross-dresser.
You know, I don't have anything against people who enjoy or are comfortable bouncing back and forth. One of my dearest friends will likely never be out to a certain segment of her life. I've seen her as "him" quite a bit and she's just as cool either way. If you're going to be closeted to some degree, just admit it and take advantage of the opportunities that affords. There is no shame in being part-time, just don't make excuses about it.





