Never mind , Found it;
http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/wh...n-cross-dress/
Kay's respones is a bit harsh, and she also alludes to other issues in their marriage.
As a personal note Hiding the fact you are Transgendered is a fairly common thing for people over 35 , it not uncommon to read posts here of people who were born ,spent their youth without access to the internet or information to grow up and live most of their lives NOT having a clue as to what these feelings of being born in the wrong body were about. The lack of information, the fear you are gay, the shame of not fitting in, the belief that marriage will chage you or at least keep those feeling in check. the stigma of hat it would mean socially, all lead to years of suppression, and at times depression, so ultimately you lie to yourself and to others.
