You know, that thought has occurred to me. I've got my new friend Bev who I can talk to about dressing or my home life or anything and be totally and 100% candid, but my wife doesn't. She would be far too embarrassed to talk about this kind of thing with any of her friends and family. Also she has refused, at my urging in the past, to do some research on this issue, sent her a link to a recent article talking about Oscar De La Hoya (a boxer) and crossdressing, but she wouldn't read it.
What's left is she is fairly ignorant on the issue, with no one to talk to, and only her own preconceptions swimming circles inside her head. I get that she may never be comfortable seeing me that way. Frankly I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable dressed up with her. I want to be a man for her. But I just want her to love me for who I am, and see that this is not the mountain of a problem I feel like she's created in her mind.
Edit: Tam I'd be happy to share your email with her, but I feel that more than likely she won't want any part of it. But it is appreciated.
