I think that we all go through similar experiences. At first we are scared to death that some random person might twig to our secret passion of CDing. We're so focused on it that we think that everyone is similarly focused. Later on we figure out that not everyone is playing "spot the CDer." and relax a bit.
I don't dress on Halloween simply because I don't want to do a "drag" portrayal. I prefer to dress normally and that doesn't make a good costume.
Wear a dress for Halloween and somebody is likely to say "Getting a little girly there, sport! Sure you aren't liking it too much?" If you respond with vehement denials you come off as insecure and suspect. Brush such questions off with humor and confidence "You're just jealous of me looking fabulous!" and you'll be fine.
