Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
My SO also lost the taste for dressing on Halloween. She felt that she was dishonoring herself in the sense that her feminine self is not a costume nor does she want to turn herself into a costume ... her feminine self is part of who she is internally.
I don't get this thinking. I am a male internally. I don't see how dressing as a male character on Halloween (say, a pirate) dishonors my masculine self.
I could understand not wanting to go out on Halloween "as a woman", but why not as a character, male or female?
It's Halloween - it's about costumes and characters this one day of the year.