Kristyn, I came out after joining. I didn't feel pressure, I felt release. The conclusion I reached is that it was possible to tell one's wife and have a happy marriage.
I adamantly disagree with those that say a marriage can or will end because of cross dressing. Any healthy marriage or relationship can survive this. However, if cross dressing is just one more thing in an already weak relationship, it could be the ender. Cross dressing alone is not a killer, it's just a thing that needs discussion and boundaries.
