...I'd hope that you're not suggesting everyone with a weak marriage and an embarrassing secret should press the self-destruct button willingly just to improve the average quality of surviving marriages? ...
No Katey, I made no such suggestion. In fact, it should be read as a warning. Work on the marriage first. Any healthy marriage can survive this revelation.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.