Allie yes of course there are alternatives to the Top 40's stations and that was my point as to the OP. In the vain of this thread the "man in a skirt" in going out in public the "majority place" so he has got to accept that some will ridicule him, that's a fact of life. That might not happen should he decide to change stations by going out only to CD friendly clubs or places while presenting as a man in a skirt.
We are all human first, then male or female, then masculine or feminine or a blend. We have the right to dress as we want as long as we can still defend the rights of others to be offended by what we show them.
Let me put it this way I am a male with male genitalia but there are laws against me showing those to the general public. I just think that instead of trying to force the majority to accept our crossdressing by looking obviously as a "man in a skirt" we should be thankful there are no laws against it.
Please help me to understand what it is about wearing only an article of clothing (in this case a skirt) but remaining male in appearance in public changes the way you feel about yourself. If you truly feel yourself to be feminine all the time then why only express it in a way that shocks others?