For some reason I suspect there is going to be a part two to this. In actuality, I guess how she feels about it is really none of my business. What I need to work on is thicker skin and how I process these attitudes. It wasn't about me, it was about her 3 year old son. But somehow, I made it about me.
This is why I say I am too self-absorbed about being TG. One can be offended by anything if they look hard enough. It should have rolled off my back but for some reason today I could not let it go.
Funny how someone could say something so insignificant to them, yet it rocked my afternoon and led to this elaborate discussion here. She probably hasn't given what she said a second thought.