@lucy - I dressed less than you did up until 1 month before I came out to myself. You really don't know where you fall for certain on the spectrum - hopefully you never find yourself in my position realizing one horrible, horrible night "oh shit, I'm a woman."
A year ago, I never thought my life would be like this. I'd implore you to think not that we have nothing in common, but rather "there, but for the grace of God, go I..."
