Hi MsVal,
I am not a long timer comparatively to others but what you describe resonates with me as I was there and am still there to some degree. Once I came out to my wife and she supported my dressing (complete) Isha was free to slip her bonds and explore. There was a gradual increase in dressing which has culminated in going out. However after the initial surge it was finding balance which brought me back. I spend about 20 percent of my time as Isha now (completely dressed) and in the world. Of the remaining 80 percent boy time, some of that is spent at home partially dressed (Isha au natural) which includes girl clothes, wig and no make-up during which I am just watching TV or relaxing in one of my hobbies.
You will find balance and when you do you will know because it is just the right amount of you (both boy and girl) to make life enjoyable.
Hugs
Isha
