Quote Originally Posted by Tinkerbell-GG View Post
..., planning ahead seems pointless as we can never truly know what will happen. Look at Paula! Rare, sure - but it happens and that will always be there in the back of my mind every time my H dresses....
Tink, you don't stop planning even though he could get cancer or be hit by a bus, right? It may be in the back of ones mind that "things" can happen but they are so unlikely that we don't worry about them. If transsexualism is your greatest fear, it's either a) he's not, so don't worry or b) he is and there is nothing you can do about it, so why worry? By the way, it's a) he's more likely to be hit by a bus.

water off a ducks back....