Quote Originally Posted by Jenniferathome View Post
By the way, it's a) he's more likely to be hit by a bus.

water off a ducks back....
Thanks Jen, I do actually know it's option a) - my H doesn't even dress that often (decreasing over time, even) and looks at me like I have three heads whenever I suggest TS. In his mind, the two are not even on the same planet so what's my problem?

Well, as we figured out here some time back, I'm a typical female over-thinker, lol. I still do that, but I'm also compartmentalising the whole thing much better than I used to and that's helping A LOT.

I think you're right though, Hope Springs - I'll never accept CD in the way that it will be a part of my life and I like it. But I can accept my H needs it and tolerate it the best I can. You all have really helped me do that.

Lidea, we really need to have a wine-whine night where we can chat about our crazy lives! lol.