I can perhaps relate to what is going on with him. Many years ago, I confided in a good friend and coworker that I was a CD. He told his wife about it and she was very accepting of me. I spent some time at their home and during one visit she asked me if she could help me get dressed. She and I went to their bedroom where I laid out my things that I had packed with me while I was out on a business trip. She looked thru my things and helped me decide on a white dress. Once that decision was made she then suggested that white underthings would be in order including a pretty white bra and panty set, and nude pantyhose. I stripped off my clothes down to my birthday suit and put on the bra and panties. She asked if she could do my makeup and did a fantastic job of making me look as pretty as she could. After she did my nails, toe and finger, I pulled on the pantyhose. She told me over and over how much I looked like a real woman as she put the dress on over my head.
While making sure that everything was in place, she asked me why I didn't have an erection. I guess she must have thought that our dress up session would have really turned me on, but for some reason it didn't. I told her that I had never seen a GG with and erection and that it just didn't seem very lady like for me to have one as well.
It was truly as if a switch had been turned off and since that day, it gets more and more difficult for me to become erect.
I wonder if a similar switch got turn off for him as well!
Just a thought.
Judy