For what it's worth I have heard women discuss their drawers. Well, the drawers in their drawers or what kind they have on/like to wear. Hell, Victoria's Secret would not exist if women didn't at least want to wear something "sexualized" every now and again.
So all of women's bodies are fetishized. Why I don't know, chalk it up to the very nature of things I guess. That's why they can't go topless. What started at 4-5 years old may very well have not been a fetish then but what today is like what it was then? Where something starts is not usually where it ends up.
I think all or most of the talk of de-fetishizing it comes from plain old guilt. If I can make it into something not sexual I don't feel so bad or weird about it. So many of us at least will make an attempt to move beyond that and try to have some real experiences with it. But how many of us who have moved to a more "cosmetic" phase can truly say it's no longer a turn on in the least, not even a teentsy weenie bit?
C'mon be honest.
