Paula,Originally Posted by I Am Paula
I heard the wants you wish you had but it seems you settled for the life you have an 'acceptable compromise' are you happy or resentful? I mean I don't think any of us ever get EVERYTHING we REALLY want out of life and a marriage (IMHO) there is always some level of compromise but before all this came out in our life I would have said that I was overall extremely happy - now - I'm still confused and trying to figure things out with everything, my H came out to me in May of this year. There are a lot of things that I LOVE about the new him. But I am scared about how far it will go. The person he is becoming to me is a better man. I'm still perplexed about the dressing but the characteristics he is now sharing with me this new personality - to me it isn't an alter ego - it is a more complex him and I do love it. I'm hoping time will make the rest of it (dressing) ok but right now I just don't know. Still working it all out. Can you tell me how long has your journey been taking place - from coming out to now being Paula 100% of the time?
Thanks for sharing,
Coping2014
