Because it is, that's why. They don't get you just as you don't get them. Even many casual not so deep TG CD's are basically trying to fit a square peg into a round hole when it comes to GG relationships and marriage. And male bonding friendships if they want to take it there too. In order to make it work, in regards to GG relationships, the square peg is going to have to round the edges, the the that who has the round hole is going to have to change as well. Many just don't have the capability let alone the desire. It is how it is. Many are hard wired when it comes to gender being black and white.I recognize that I don't *get* monosexuals... how/why is gender more important than anything else? Why isn't dedication more important?
