Actually, no. Judging by the many posts I have read about this, the desire is to be one of the girls. It's about experiencing female bonding more than just having sex.
I don't believe his desire is to be "one of the girls". I think it's to have a normal relationship and have acceptance with "one of the girls".
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.