I don't think what seanmuscle says is a total load of BS as much as a gross exaggeration. A while back I spent some time looking at profiles on fetlife. ...
Your opinion is based on a sample of people who claim to be "women" on a fetish site? Let guess, you're not a researcher of any kind...
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.