I know I can handle the dressing. I also know with time I could grow to accept it more, and become comfortable with other things so long as it happens at my own pace. He hasn't lied to me about anything else, just this. That's my problem. I've proven to myself and to him that I can accept it, he's just so scared to talk about it that he simply won't. That's my concern with the whole thing, which, in my heart, I know can get better if we both try.