There was a comment about Z possibly having a guilty conscience. But, she's only been a member here since 2013 and the timing of the exodus was 4 years ago. In the context of this forum, Z couldn't have a guilty conscience over anything that happened here as she wasn't around.
It's Apples and Oranges in the sense that needs, goals and interests of F2M and M2F crossdressers may not be as well aligned as we might think. It isn't exactly different sides of the same coin. I would think that some facets are common, such as family isues and reactions. Clearly there would be no need for a F2M to discuss female clothes and makeup. Conversely, I would doubt if M2F crossdressers would have muchinterest in discussing male clthes. As it sits, there is a lot of discussion here devoted to the notion of passing or not. I don't see that this as a major topic for F2M's as the bar is MUCH lower.
From what you say, F2M members were never a large population here. I suspect that faced with the reality that the majority of threads here considered crossdressing from a MALE perspective, thee wasn't much space left over to consider things from a FEMALE perspective. In other words, the forum is a victim of its own success.
The concept is the same. Even though a statement may be uncomfortable, that does not change the reality and the inherent truth.
And no, Choose A Side is very different. That isn't based in reality and it doesn't reflect reality. It's just somebody verbalizing their distress. Metaphorically, it could be put down to Misery Loves Company.
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