Hi Mikell and congrats on getting out there and finding a support group. Yeah the terminology thing gets confusing and as we all navigate through the minefield of what is right and what is wrong, we will eventually all get to the other side . . . just make sure if someone yells "STOP DON'T MOVE" while in the minefield you do just that. Seriously though, I hope you have found a great and supportive group to help you on your journey.
Hugs
Isha