From a personal point of view (and that is the only point of view any of us can present) I don't think the hormones change your desire for one sex over another. Maybe some it does but I feel that those feelings were either there all along or they cave to societal pressures (once again). After all we are told we need a mate and we are told it should be of the opposite gender.Originally Posted by ReineD
So I will twist the post after yours statistics a bit. I think many start as bi (IMO...that is a normal state anyway) and are able to slide into the expected life. However, finding a mate, of either gender, is difficult during and maybe after transitioning. What I say is I am in a limbo. Gay men don't want to date me because I am not a man. Lesbians won't because i am not a woman. Straight men fear I am contagious and the majority of women fear the unknown as the OP's wife does.
