Rachel, the operations do not make you a man or a woman. They are there for those that feel the need to align their body with their mind. For example, a transsexual has FFS, why? To look more like a woman. She has GRS, why? To look more like a woman. She has BA, why? To look more like a woman. It is up to the individual to determine just how far they need to go to feel comfortable in their own skin. If you don't want these operations, fine. That is totally your decision. Learn to enjoy life and all it has to offer. As long as you are happy with yourself, why would you want to go through life altering operations?