so if we are transexual we have to transition now? just wonder for not all ts's chose to transition for personal reasons. i hope this post isnt trolling. i for one am very ts and could have chosen to transition at a early age but my love for women stopped me,for if i transitioned then,i wouldnt have what i have now a son who loves cheryl as much as he loves his dad..i wouldnt have my wonderful wife for i would be alone. ive seen plain cders get trapped into transitioning because they think they have to too belong and later regret transitioning,and they try to transition back or commit suicide..i know both sides of the aisle for ive been there done that.