It strikes me as funny that after a lifetime spent in fear of being ourselves that even when we accept ourselves and venture out we still live in fear... Is this outfit age appropriate? Is my dress to short? Etc According to who and why care?
From my point of view it's a matter of dressing to look good according to what you like.
No, I don't mean dressing like a tramp or a teeny bopper lol or wearing spike heels to Walmart giggle
But isn't it really a matter of trying a look and seeing if you can pull it off?
It's about style and elegance for sure, but that doesn't mean one needs to look like an old frump. Many beautiful GGs in LA or NY pull off styles that you would never see a woman of a similar age wearing in Peoria. If it works for you then wear it.