I'll second that, although with reminder that "what a woman wants in bed" might refer to penetration, which in our cases requires a far higher amount of preperation/approach to be enjoyable, which ladies don't need. If you go for it, I'd be very clear on keeping things oral.
ps, I tried not to make this post to explicit, but seeing as it is a common first time mistake with gay/bi dating I thought it was appropriate to post as advice.