Male Entitlement to Women's Spaces

[Alice Torn]

i do not identify as a macho, "male privilege" male. In fact i have always been single, a virgin, and considered gay by some. I do not like the term "male privilege". As many males i know have done suicide, over rejection, loneliness, being misunderstood, tortured mentally and emotionally. Who has to go signup for selective service, for the draft,in case of war? So much for equality!! Who pays for alimony, and child support, after divorce, often forced to live in their vehicles, because they won't have enough money for rent?" There is a place near Rockford, Illinois, called "Womanspace". No place called "Menspace! There is just as much "women's privilege" in this modern time, as there is "men's privilege", only a bit different. Sorry i got off the topic just a little. Truth is, no one knows the heart and soul , mind, and intentions of each crossdresser, and for that matter, any other person, regardless of gender! There are a tiny number of CD pretenders, who really are going into ladies rooms, to take photos, put mirrors down low, to peep. But they are not true crossdressers at all! They give all of us a bad name, and make women angry at all of us. I am a blue collar, but a bit feminine male, but pretty much ASEXUAL. I have little libido , and even when i had a women want me to have sex with her, I could and would not do it. Everyone of us dressers is different, a little or a lot, just as every real woman is different a little or a lot. I have used single use ladies room, in drab, but one time, boys chided me for using the wrong restroom!! I told them it was empty, and when you got to go, you got to go! I feel somewhat like a woman, when presenting as one, dressed modest and ladylike, and I would consider it extremely hazardous to my health, to go as Alice into a multi-use men's room. I try to avoid multi-use restrooms, period! I also think all multi-use restrooms, should have totally enclosed stalls, mening doors annnnnnnnd walls from ceilings to floor, no gaps, for COMPLETE PRIVACY!!