What you referred to as "...This seems like pretty sound advice,..." is not sound advice at all. Cross dressings not a "habit." I would compare cross dressing to sexual attraction. Does it go away? You ARE sexually attracted to men, women or possibly both. You can choose celibacy but that does not change your sexual attraction. You can be sexually active AND not do anything negative. You can also be sexually active and screw up your life by cheating on a wife, for example. You can give us sex and guarantee that no one ever gets pregnant or gets an STD OR you can behave responsibly and accomplish the same thing.
I've written before that anything in one's life that controls one's life and is at the expense of family, friends, work, etc is when you have a problem.
