I have Gender Dysphoria, How do I tell my Wife I can not change who I am?

[Nadine Spirit]

What is the best, most Loving way to tell my Wife of over 31 years I can not change who I am?

I doubt that your voice alone will be enough to sway her opinion. My best advice is try and encourage her to become better educated on the topic. There are a variety of ways one could go about this. For example these boards here have educated me tremendously. But how about going to therapy together with a therapist? If she is willing to be educated it will be easy to find the resources. If she is determined to be against it, then you may be involved in a loosing battle.

Best of luck to you and your wife!

Also, realize that you can never be a true woman, the best you can do is be a transwoman.

Krisi - the things you write sometimes shock me. You obviously have some serious self loathing issues. Maybe it would be a good idea for you to deal with your own self hatred.