i too definitely flip between roles, being that i am really into football and the ultra scene at my club i guess that makes me somewhat of a macho person in society's eyes. none have any idea lol! but when i present as a girl yeah it's very feminine but i wouldnt say i go submissive or anything i definitely become more relaxed that's for sure. when i told my so she laughed and said she thought that my macho behaviour (in her view) in the kurve was compensating for something. which is interesting. her impression of me hasn't changed she doesn't see me as a sissy or anything like weaker or anything. i guess but that is because we both see both women and men as equal.
