Can I get you GG's opinion. Let me give you a bit of back story first. My SO and I are finally finding a place for my CD'ing, its been a long road with lots of tears but we seem to have made it work. It was a big shock for her when I told her 4 years ago. Normally my SO is a very liberal, supportive, loving partner and we are a very close couple with definite masculine and feminine identities in our relationship, because of this she had an extreme reaction to me coming out, she said if it was anyone else she would be absolutely fine with it. The irony of all that is that she was even more distressed at her own reaction and not being able to be the supportive partner she had always has been.
Anyway that brings us to today and our current arrangement is based on being honest about how we feel and me only doing it when shes not around. She says she is now absolutely fine about it and we do talk often but she has never expressed any interest in seeing me dressed which makes me wonder if she still finds the idea of it too difficult.
I don't want to suggest it because I am fine if she doesn't want see but I'm surprised she is not in the least bit curious. I would be interested in your perspective on this as a GG
